This is not an exhaustive list at all, but these are the twenty-five tropes I decided to include in my first survey for the The Trope Project, a ranking of romance tropes, by romance readers, to try and determine which tropes are more universally appealing. For science! And also fun.
If you are a writer looking for a list of popular romance novel tropes, you’ve come to the right place. What you won’t find on this list are job descriptions (billionaire romance or hockey romance might be trope-y, but it’s more like a sub-genre than a pure trope applicable across all of romance, and that’s what I was going for).
This list is sorted from most popular to least popular, as voted on by more than 1200 readers in March 2020.
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|The Grumpy One is Soft for the Sunshiney One|
|Enemies to Lovers|
|Friends With Benefits|
|Second Chance at Love|
|Forced proximity (“only one bed/room/house”)|
|Friends to Lovers|
|Marriage of Convenience|
|Best friend’s sibling|
|Next Door Neighbour|
|Never Been Kissed|
|Instalove (“love at first sight”)|
|Age Gap (“may/december”)|
|Marriage in Trouble|
Additionally, here are tropes I left off the ranked survey, but have been suggested since I launched this project:
|Rise from the Ashes|
|Rags to Riches|
|Secret Identity / Undercover Lover *|
|Get it Out of Our Systems|
|Let’s Make a Sex Deal / Teach Me About Love *|
|Get the Band Back Together One Last Time|
|Starcrossed lovers (External Thwarting)|
* I shelved these two tropes together, but they’re different! If you write one, do you like the other? This is something I’m going to think about for a while!